Pregnancy and childbirth.
What does it mean to be a mom.
The mission of every woman on earth is procreation. Our ancestors believed that if a woman has no children, then it can not be completely full. Just knowing motherhood, to the end she could feel my femininity. The birth of a child - is a miracle that brings a woman to God. No wonder almost all religions there is the cult of the mother.
Many women are not only not prepared for motherhood, but also suited for this important event simply irresponsible. It is no secret that most do not plan birth in advance, and become mothers because of chance. Many people do not want to have children, fearing that it would limit their freedom, would require too much financial outlay or ruin the figure.
What does being a dad.
For men fatherhood is not the most important thing in life. The first place for it is work, career. And do not accuse of boys in selfishness and insensibility. Just laid by nature, that man always raiser and benefactor, and a woman - homemaker.
But despite the constant employment of men, their total exclusion from participation in the upbringing of children is unacceptable. A child needs not only maternal but also paternal affection and attention. He closely followed the behavior of parents and tries to imitate them, but as an adult, it may be to raise a family on the model of the one in which he grew up. It is therefore very important that before him he saw a good example of both parents.
Conscious conception of the child.
Conscious conception occurs only when both spouses are eager to have a child and engage in sexual contact not only for pleasure, but for this purpose. By such a responsible business should be properly prepared.
Women need to figure out what days chances to conceive a child she would have the most. Both partners must put aside all negative thoughts and emotions and think only about good things. Entering into sexual contact, and a man and woman should not be under the influence of alcohol or drugs, as this greatly affects the physical, mental and intellectual development of the child.
At home or in hospital.
Whereas previously, women strove to give birth in hospitals, but now there is the reverse process. Today more and more expectant mothers are inclined to leave the house. Choose between home and the hospital is really hard. And that, in both cases is, as its advantages and disadvantages. The advantage of home delivery is that it is more familiar and comfortable environment for women.
There she is surrounded by native people who are looking forward to such an important event for the whole family, and are keen to help facilitate the process of giving birth deliveries. At the hospital, doctors refer to childbirth as a normal operation, and do not seek to support women in psychological terms. Hospital, with its cold conditions, many strange people, scary-looking medical instruments leads a woman into a state of great excitement, which, of course, can not affect the flow of labor.
Choosing the hospital.
If you decide to give birth in hospital, it will be extremely serious about his choice. We must know what they prevail orders: Is it possible her husband's presence during childbirth, which poses health practitioners, whether good nurses at the hospital, leaving a child in the same room with her mother or immediately kill.
If possible, you need to talk to women giving birth in the hospital to find out their views on the orders of which there are installed and on the conditions of detention. We must always ask the medical staff, whether in the hospital for children and adult intensive care, department of blood transfusion, anesthesia department.
During pregnancy there is a large restructuring of the female organism, both physically and psychologically. However, not all of the expectant mothers are able to understand those and other changes that occur with them. Most only accept your physical condition.
During pregnancy, women suffer not only care for loved ones, but nature itself. She organized a woman's body so that he could bear a child as comfortable as possible. In the light of no connection is closer than the relationship of mother and child. Unborn child is very thin feels the slightest nuances of maternal mood.
The future pope.
Wife's pregnancy often causes a man conflicting emotions. He certainly glad that soon become a father, but at the same time feeling he was jealous of the future child, sometimes feels forgotten, unwanted. Do not give rest and anxiety for his wife.
A man during his wife's pregnancy plays in her life is very important. From his relationship to it and to the baby, caring for them, depends on the wife's state of mind and, consequently, the future of the child. My husband always has to comply with the requests of his pregnant wife, viewing them not as a whim, but as a necessity for the child.